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Can one still satisfy the desires of Black women with a more discreet endowment?"?

09.06.2025 02:08

Can one still satisfy the desires of Black women with a more discreet endowment?"?

In other words, being a good lover has much less to do with the size of one's genitals and a lot more to do with being kind, sensitive, caring, selfless and loving. The majority of women want to be loved, and for sex to be an extension and expression of that love; they don't want to feel like they're filming a porno.

Fun fact for you: the vagina has the majority of its nerve endings in its first three inches; after that it responds primarily to stretching. The vaginal canal as a whole also has a fraction of the nerve endings of the clitoris, which is outside the vagina.

The idea that all women prefer a huge penis and can't get any pleasure unless you're hung like a horse is untrue, practically speaking; while the vaginal canal will extend in response to pressure, it will extend only so far, and trying to ram a crowbar into a padlock key slot won't get you anywhere.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?